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The Wife Walked In On Us
My buddy “Dominic” in Delaware told me this account about a white buddy of his: “Rich,” a muscular white bottom, had finally struck gold. He was in love. He had met a 62-year-old married, in-shape...
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Never Bite the Ass or Dick that Feeds You
Remember my acquaintance “Ronald,” the guy who has had several affairs with professional football players? I forgot to mention he is extremely picky about his sexual partners, probably because he used...
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The 8 Worst Types of Lovers
I’ve experienced a lot of sex and it seems bad lovers fall into certain types. Here are my eight: The Energizer Bunny This man confuses being energetic with being passionate. The two are not the...
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The 8 Best Types of Lovers
A few days ago I gave you the worst types of lovers you will run across. Here are the best: The Attentive One He makes sure you are pleased and get your nutt before he does. This is the type of man who...
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Are you Watching Iyanla: Fix My Life episode on gay black ministers?
Iyanla talks to gay minister Mitchell during the episode Fix My Life as a Gay Pastor. If you are not watching, check out OWN’s three-part Iyanla: Fix My Life episode on black gay ministers who decide...
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Comrades in Arms
Photo courtesy of rccatalyst.com. Several gay and bisexual men I know say they got turned on to gay sex in the military. One of my friends “Wesley” told me this is what happened to him: After he...
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Half-Lives
If Preacher Man was out, maybe he would be enjoying a relationship in his middle age. But that is not the case. Some down-low men live what I call half-lives. Half in the straight world. Half in the...
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Too Much Gay Sex on Empire? Come on son
Jamal and his lover Michael on Empire. Photo courtesy liverpooljaelo.tumblr.com. I am a rabid “Empire” fan, and often follow comments on Facebook and Twitter while the show is still on. And some of the...
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Reader Question: I’m in the closet in a conservative Caribbean nation? Should...
Revellers at Gay Pride in Santo Domingo. Photo of Townhall.com. Q: First at all, I am a fan of your blog, I have learned so many things reading it. I will start by saying that I live in the...
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Reader Question Follow-Up: Dominican Man Needs Additional Info
I received a question from a reader in the Dominican Republic about dating and relationships. I answered and he sent these follow-up questions: Q: I felt honored and surprised because you used my...
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The Gangbang Theory
Gangbangs are a popular category in gay porn. Often it’s the stereotypical set-up of a white bottom being ravaged by a room of big-dicked black men. Photo courtesy of smutty.com. An acquaintance in...
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My Advice to Yusaf Mack
Yusaf Mack. Photo courtesy of dawgpoundusa.com. Okay, I’m sure you have heard it now. The story of Yusaf Mack, a professional boxer who did a threesome gay sex scene for dawgpoundusa.com but claimed he...
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Joining Forces
Photo courtesy of taxsnafu.com Well, it’s official. My partner “Van” has sold his home and has moved in with me. He is always at my house anyway so it’s merely a formality. So far we seem to blend. His...
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Yusaf Mack Comes Clean!
Yusaf Mack. Photo courtesy of proboxing-fans.com. A few days ago I wrote about former professional boxer Yusaf Mack, who did a gay porn film for Dawgpound and then when his peeps found out lied and...
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The Thug Up the Block and the Fire
I kid you not about this. On Friday night I dreamed I hit the lottery. In the dream I turned to “Van” and said, “Hey let’s use a little bit of these millions to fix up Ray’s house up the street.”...
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Dick and Ass Convocation
My buddy “Elliott” in Delaware is friends with a down-low Church of God in Christ minister. This minister attended the COGIC Convocation in St. Louis in September. I have heard a lot of sex between DL...
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Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Van and I wish you Happy Holidays! Been mad busy lately at the office and having work done on the house so haven’t had much time to write. But miss you guys and hope to crank up soon!
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The Size Queen
An acquaintance named “Christian” called me last week. A hot, little airline attendant from Barbados who doesn’t freak often but when he does throws ass better than quarterback Carson Palmer throws...
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Coming out to Anitra
If I was a female I would be my buddy “Anitra.” We are both Geminis and free spirits who can talk nonstop about the latest trends, new events and politics. A divorced mother of a teenager she is the...
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It’s a Top World and Bottoms Just Live in It
I’m on vacation and yesterday “Van” and I went to lunch with friends on Baltimore’ Federal Hill. During the meal I mentioned the story I had heard of a bottom who went to a sex party in the city, got...
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