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Immanuel’s Gay Words of Wisdom
1. A man that doesn’t clean his ass is usually messy outside the bedroom too. 2. Just because a man is big and tall and has big hands and feet doesn’t mean he has a big dick. 3. Feminine guys are...
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Man in the Mirror
I passed by a mirror, saw my reflection and thought, why not take a pic?
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This has been a historic week…
Georgia residents Larry Carter, star of the web series “The Boyz Next Door,” and Antoine Nolan Carter had to travel to Washington, D.C. to get married. Now same-sex couples around the nation won’t have...
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Read GoodTopBrutha!
Rock’s blog goodtopbrutha I have known “Rock” for years and he is an avid reader of my blog and good and supportive friend. Often he will comment on what I write and share stories from his own...
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Lost and Found
You know your sex parties are good when folks leaving drawers. For those guys who were so caught up in our sex parties they forgot their drawers “Van” and I have started a Lost and Found box. Please...
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When the Pressure Builds
Every few months I will get a text from “Armin,” a tall, handsome, married man of American Indian, Black and Latino descent. “What are you and ‘Van’ doing,” he will ask. ” I can get away and I need to...
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Blind Man’s Bluff
My partner “Van” and I are off work – it’s the July 4th weekend. And a friend of ours, ” Ralphie,” texted us and asked what we are doing. Ralphie is a fine ass chocolate dude with a hairy body and...
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The Phone Booth
A New York City phone booth back in the day. You just don’t see them too much anymore. When I was a teenager in the late 70s and early 80s and my mother dropped us off at the bowling alley or a concert...
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The Day I Feared Came Yesterday and all I Could Do Was Smile
Photo courtesy of blackyouthproject.com. I have several gay cousins in this area who don’t know I’m gay. It’s been pretty easy to avoid them. They are all in their 20’s so we don’t circulate in the...
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Coming out to the Cousins
Photo courtesy of http://www.accessatlanta.com. My favorite cousin “Carmella” texted me last week. “Hey my sister and I are coming up to Pier Six in Baltimore to catch the Jill Scott concert. We want...
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Muscle Madness
This guy resembles Malcolm. Photo courtesy of Pinterest. A couple of Friday nights ago “Van” and I were dancing in Ziascoz, a tiny gay bar near Little Italy in Baltimore that has great house music on...
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His Girlfriend’s Panties
The panties Bishop left at my house. “Bishop” is a down-low man who came to the very first sex party “Van and I had a year ago. He walked in the door all muscular and dark-skinned and handsome. “This...
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Ronald and the NFL Player
My friend “Ronald” says professional football is filled with gay and bisexual players and he has the stories to prove it. Here is one he told me: Ronald was raised in Tennessee but has lived around the...
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Hollywood Swinging: #blaquewednesday
I’m back in Los Angeles on business and my partner “Van” tagged along. After a long day of work we unwinded in the gay district on Santa Monica Blvd and ran into the Blaque Wednesday Party...
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Reader Question: How can I keep my sex life private and discreet?
One of my blog readers is grappling with keeping is sex life private and sent this long and sometimes convoluted question. My answer is below. Q: Hey man, this is kind of long. I am an intelligent...
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Yeah, I’d do him…Part 2
Three years ago I asked readers to tell me what celebrity, gay or straight, they would go to bed with. Well, I would still do my original list but I wanted to add a few others. Here they go. And please...
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The Truth About Van and Me
I really wasn’t going to blog about this aspect of my relationship with “Van” but since it’s out to the world now I guess I can write about it. Van and I have a lot more in common than our outgoing,...
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Big Apple Dating Blues
New York City has fine men but searching for a relationship there is like hunting for Fool's Gold. Last weekend “Van” and I drove up to Crown Heights, Brooklyn to attend a buddy’s 40th birthday. And...
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Hacking
Young men hacking in Baltimore. Photo courtesy of Urban Fringe. Long before Uber Baltimore had hacking, it’s own informal transportation system. Stand on a busy corner, extend your arm, and dangle your...
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The Escort at the Sex Party
The sex party that “Van” and I hold in Baltimore is so popular folks keep asking us to have more. So every once in awhile we do. The last party was Friday night and it was a great get together with...
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