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The Persistent One
He had hit me up on Adam4Adam for a month, a slight, muscular verse dude who said on his profile he couldn’t say no to a big dick. But the timing wasn’t right. My partner “Van” and I were busy, or...
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Wow, I’m having a lot of sex…
Today I took a brief survey on sex frequency on Slate Magazine. Even I was surprised by the results…
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Wow, a Million Hits!
Wow, I’m so sorry for not writing for so long. Life has been busy. I’ve done a lot of traveling. And I’m beginning to plan to turn this blog into a book. But today I happened to glance over at my...
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Picking Up Trade
NY Knicks baller J.R. Smith. The guy we picked up looked somewhat like him. He was hanging outside of the “Drinkery,” a gay bar on West Read Street, a few months ago. Just standing in the silvery glow...
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Picking him up off the street in Los Angeles
Boys Town in Los Angeles. Photo from Youtube. I was on business in Los Angeles a month ago and my partner “Van” tagged along. As usual we stayed in a hotel on Santa Monica Boulevard in Boys Town so we...
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The Sex Party and Porn Star Ramsees
Porn actor Ramsees. Photo courtesy of Next Door Ebony. Labor Day Sunday I was home alone, dozed off too early in the evening and woke up a little before midnight bored and a little horny. Then I...
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Love, Sex and Death in Baltimore
Calvin Fernanda Phair. Photo courtesy of his Facebook page. I have seen Calvin Fernanda Phair around for a long time. At the gay bars. On Adam4Adam. And as a suggested friend on my Facebook page....
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The Nigerian
Protest in London against homophobia in Nigeria. Photo courtesy of the London Evening Post. The Nigerian is 30 years old and is here visiting family. I met him on Grindr. He is beautiful to behold,...
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Gay shows I’m watching on Internet TV
Some of the best Black gay television is on the Internet. The acting, writing and cinematography are getting better. But there are drawbacks. Sometimes you have to pay for episodes or a subscription....
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Is My Straight Best Friend Really Gay?
Photo courtesy of Nairaland Forum. “Jeremy” and I have been friends for more than 30 years. He was my brother’s friend in college. Jeremy would come home to our house weekends since he was from Los...
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Running into Family at the Sex Party
Family can show up in the oddest places. Photo courtesy of Adweek. Last Friday my partner “Van” and I had a sex party in honor of a buddy who had moved away from Baltimore and was back for a week-long...
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C.K.
Photo courtesy of ASOS.com. Tonight “C.K.” texted me and said he wanted to play with me and my partner “Van.” An hour later he walked in my front door and I spotted a purple hickey on his neck. “Damn,...
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Walk of Shame
My partner “Van” is out of town so I hung out last night with long-time friend “Freddy.” We met at the recently reopened Baltimore Eagle up Charles Street, one of the hottest gay spots in the city. We...
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Halloween in Ft. Lauderdale
Took a flight down to Ft. Lauderdale to join my partner “Van” and go to the world famous Halloween street party in Wilton Manors. We are there right now. Here are some photos.
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Florida Swinging: DL Paranoia
A street in Liberty City. Photo from Wikipedia. Living in the more liberal Baltimore-Washington, D.C. area I take my gay rights for granted. I can go to gay bars, gay clubs, gay bathhouses, gay book...
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RIP Giovanni Melton
Giovanni Melton Fourteen-year-old Giovanni Melton was murdered by his father last week. I know this happened days ago but it’s taken me time to process this and write about it. With all the bad news...
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Why would a top send a video like this?
A buddy of mine who swears up and down he is a strict top sent me this video yesterday morning. He claims he was playing with a “bottom” buddy who wanted him to play with his ass on camera for him....
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Immanuel’s 7 Tips for Growing Older Gay with Grace
This brother is definitely aging well. We don’t all have to fit this ideal but it is important to have healthy habits. Wow, time flies. My children are adults now and one is married. I could be a...
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The Down-Low Husband Needs Dick
Remember “Jose,” the young man from Philadelphia who had a long-time boyfriend but married a woman for cover? You know. The one whose lover was best man at his wedding? Well his wife was at work early...
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The Seven Freakiest Professions
I’ve had myriad sexual experiences and I’ve noticed a trend. Do you think porn actors are the most sexually charged professions? Wrong. Gay men who work in certain professions can be freakier. And...
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