Protest in London against homophobia in Nigeria. Photo courtesy of the London Evening Post.
The Nigerian is 30 years old and is here visiting family. I met him on Grindr.
He is beautiful to behold, with a handsome, oval face and slight, tight body.
He has flawless deep ebony skin that is smooth as a baby because he grows so little body hair.
He is just a mile away so he has become a regular, dropping by to get as much dick as he can before he goes home.
Because being gay in Nigeria is no joke…it can literally get you arrested or even killed.
The Christians in southern Nigeria persecute people who are LGBT. And so do the Muslims in the north.
Newspapers will run gossip articles exposing you.
There is no way to run, he says.
His first male sex was with a teacher at the boy’s school he attended as a teenager. Which was molestation since he was not at the age of consent.
Now he must find partners in Nigeria and have sex as clandestinely as possible because anybody can report you and have you arrested.
He is also under suspicion because he is grown and has not married and had children. He does not even have a girlfriend.
“I refuse to get married,” the Nigerian said, explaining that despite the dangers he will remain as true to himself as he can.
I feel sorry for him, admire his bravery and wish he could enjoy the same liberties as same gender loving men in the United States.
But until he leaves we will make his visit as enjoyable as possible.
Here are some video clips and photos of him and my partner “Van” and I playing with him:
