I Got a Million Problems but a Bottom Ain’t One
“Dontae” is a handsome, dark-skinned bottom from New York City who resettled in Baltimore. About 30 years old he looks like a model. A matter of fact, I think Dontae did model briefly. Dontae is into...
View ArticleStraight Boyz and the Gay Boyz Who Love Them
British soccer star Jermain Defoe (center) arrives at a party with some friends. Defoe is straight. But there are some gay men who I bet would love to be in his social circle in hopes of turning him...
View ArticleThe Couple that Plays Together…
Some gay couples are so comfortable in their relationship they easily play sexually with others. Photo courtesy of HealthyBlackMen.org. A few weeks ago I was at a popular sex party thrown by an African...
View ArticleBack in Florida!
Van is treating me to a trip to Florida for my birthday. Arrived in Ft. Lauderdale last night. Let the fun begin!
View ArticleFlorida Swinging: Fun at the Boardwalk
“Van” and I are having too much fun in Ft. Lauderdale. Tonight we hit a local bar/restaurant called Boardwalk and had a ball with the bartender Roger and Daniel and the other dancers. Enjoy the pics!
View ArticleFlorida Swinging: The Jamaican
The section of the Fort Lauderdale strip near Sebastian Avenue is where gays gather. Photo courtesy of jumponmarkslist.com. My boyfriend “Van” has a timeshare in Ft. Lauderdale and has been here...
View ArticleFlorida Swinging: White Men’s Pets
No matter where “Van” and I went in Ft. Lauderdale we saw the same thing. Older white men with much younger black men in in their company. They were on the beaches. In the restaurants. Window...
View ArticleFlorida Swinging: Seducing the Straight Boy
“Arthur,” the older gay man I wrote about in “How Arthur Got a New Pair of Sneakers,” just happened to vacation in Florida the same time “Van” and I were. And he brought along a few gay friends and his...
View ArticleThe Ghost of Lovers Past
Photo courtesy of yourblackbloggers.net. Last month I was sitting in my doctor’s office, waiting to have a back pain issue checked out, listening to music on my headphones to pass the time. And I had a...
View Article7 Kinds of Black Bottoms…
Okay readers I wrote this in jest (well, kinda sorta). If any bottom you know is like one of these seven types the similarity was purely coincidental. Oh, and check out the 7 Kinds of Black Tops too....
View Article7 Kinds of Black Tops…
Okay readers, since I did the 7 Kinds of Black Bottoms I had to do Tops too, right. Like the bottom entry I wrote this in jest (well, kinda sorta). If any Top you know is like one of these seven types...
View ArticleWhat it’s like to have sex with one of your favorite porn actors
He is one of my favorite porn actors. He is a not a skinny young kid porn star like Jovonnie or Drilla or Jermany. He didn’t start acting until he was 40. But he brings passion to the game that is...
View ArticleGay Relationships: Is everybody having their cake and eating it too?
It seems like every gay couple I know, even ones who are married or in long-term relationships, play with others. So should we change our definition of a committed relationship? Photo courtesy of...
View ArticleMy First Online Video
My first online clip. That ass was good and the bottom was letting me know I was making him feel good too. Okay, I’ve been curious about doing a video for a long time so decided to take the plunge and...
View ArticleNever Shit Where You Eat
I warned my friend. I told him. But “Zee” did it anyway. He started fucking around with that hot, young light-skinned man who rented an apartment in one of the properties Zee owns. “You shouldn’t mix...
View ArticleHow to Have a Sex Party for Pleasure and Profit
“Van,” the guy I date, has been to bathhouses but never a sex party. So for his birthday a few months ago I held a sex party at my place in Baltimore. I text messaged some of our freakier friends and...
View ArticleRed Drawers
I had to go to Los Angeles on business last week and took “Van.” The night before leaving I was lounging in his bed in my red boxer briefs and he took this sneak shot. Wow I'm more hairy than I thought.
View ArticleHardwood and Me
My house is almost 100 years old and has great hardwood floors. I am 50 and can still get my wood hard (knock on wood!). Why not combine the two? Enjoy the pics.
View ArticleSexual Imprinting
Beaver (actor Jerry Mathers) and his dad Ward Cleaver (Hugh Beaumont). While out in Los Angeles earlier this month I caught up with my screenwriter buddy “Drake” at my usual hangout the 24 diner on...
View ArticleSilly Young Faggot. Tricks are for Kids.
“Chocolate Drop” is a 30-year-old from the Caribbean who has been hitting me up for a week or so. Sexy, tight, little dark body but a little on the feminine side. I fucked him well and then he started...
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