A Broken Bond
My ex Morgan and I had tried to be friends. A movie here. An email there. And texts most everyday. But last Sunday I invited him to see “Elliot Loves” at the LGBT film festival in Baltimore’s...
View ArticleNow that’s Jack’d Up!
Jack’d logo One of the problems with the gay smartphone hookup app Jack’d is that you can’t turn the damn thing off. The shit is always on. Thankfully I don’t have a public facial photo on my profile....
View ArticleImmanuel’s Gay Dating Interview Questions
He asked me out on a date last night to XS, a trendy Baltimore restaurant that serves sushi, coffee and cocktails and has a DJ spinning every night. The food was great and the atmosphere stellar but I...
View ArticleI’d like to interrupt my regularly scheduled program…
Antonio Douthit and Kirven Boyd, dancers in the renowned Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater, recently married. Handsome couple. Good luck to you! ..To say I never thought I would see the day the U.S....
View ArticleSlut or Ho? Let’s talk about that
“You know Immanuel, you are really just a ho (whore) running round fucking these boys,” my friend “Wally” said a couple of days ago. “Nah, Wally, you are wrong. A ho gets paid for their services. Other...
View ArticleTraining a bottom
Sometimes you have to tell folks to kiss your ass to get respect. I threw some good dick and he wanted to come back for more. A cute, late 30-something, tall, brown-skinned bottom who reminds me of a...
View ArticleFlorida Swinging
The beach at Ft. Lauderdale. Almost two months ago my friend “Randall” in Los Angeles mentioned he had a gig in Florida “Why don’t you take a flight down and hang out in Ft. Lauderdale and Miami?,”...
View ArticleFlorida Swinging: The Scene
Randall trying on a jock at LeatherWerks. I think he bought that pair. “Hey Randall, I’m going to hop in the car and check out the gay strip in Fort Lauderdale. You want to join me? Can I take you out...
View ArticleFlorida Swinging: Haulover Beach
Haulover Beach. It was Sunday afternoon and I wanted to be alone and just meditate and think. And one of the places I do my best thinking is at the beach. So I hopped in my tiny red, rented Mazda 2 and...
View ArticleFlorida Swinging: The Sex Party
The hotel where the sex party was held. “Randall, could you hurry up? It’s 11:30 and the party ends at 1 a.m. and it’s going to take us at least a half hour to get there.” “Okay, okay, I’m getting...
View ArticleFlorida Swinging: Fort Lauderdale’s Finest
There is something sexy about a Black man in uniform. Here is a vintage photo of black policemen from Tyler Texas. Monday was my last night in Florida — my flight was the leaving Fort Lauderdale...
View ArticleThe Jerk Off Game
Photo courtesy of the FuckThatTwink blog. Being a top can be hard work. All that thrusting, and pumping and grinding. That’s why I’m glad I have a friend like “Sanchez.” Sanchez is only into jacking...
View ArticleYeah, my girlfriend knows
Lance’s girlfriend knows he likes dick but is down with the situation. Photo courtesy of Rastafarianism & Jamaican Culture website. “Lance” is a short haul truck driver, with a route that...
View ArticleNothing like waking up to…
some coffee, bacon and eggs and some snap, crackle ass. This 28-year-old dude visiting from Atlanta hit me up online. He woke early and was horny as hell. “Come over and get this dick before I leave...
View ArticleSanchez’s Ass
Remember Sanchez, my jerk off partner? I couldn’t stop thinking about how phat his ass is. So I texted him today. “Sanchez Could you do me a favor? Could you send me a pic of your ass. It’s...
View ArticleImmanuel, an African and a Bottom.
Had some free time yesterday evening and dropped by the Crew Club, a D.C. bathhouse. Met an African buddy named “Mustafa” who I haven’t seen in three years and had a great time catching up. We met...
View Article12 Things I have Learned as a Gay Man
Photo courtesy of Rob Out Loud. Okay I’ve been in this gay world for a few years and learned some things. Let me pass my wisdom on to you: Friends are very important in the gay world so develop a good...
View ArticleHunks with Trunks for Christmas
Went to a Hunks with Trunks underwear auction tonight in Baltimore. The auction benefits Moveable Feast, a great charity that helps people living with HIV/AIDS. Here is some eye candy!
View ArticleAlex and Buster
Photo courtesy of NewsOne. This is a true story a Black gay man in South Carolina told me. I changed some names, a few details and locations for privacy: Alexander was a college freshman at Morris...
View ArticleYou Can’t Teach an Old Down-Low Dog New Tricks
Ty Martin, left, is a community liaison at SAGE, a Harlem organization that helps elderly LGBT people. At his right is SAGE constituent Sherman Walker. They are proof that older black gay men can be a...
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